Warning:-Sebastian-is-a-pugnacious person.
First, I wanna say,
maybe someone would dislike this entry, so, if u think u'r one, stop reading here.
(even tho that paragraph doesn't show 0.0001%  of my pugnaciousness XD)

The message from me after my typing:
While, for all the bullshit I just typed, I dunno if they are true or not, they are all just random assertions.
Correct me if I'm wrong anyway, but i didn't really type what I really think, so... anyway
err... I just wanna type something, lol... (dun be convinced by my bullshit in anyway, lol)

Well, was thinking,
are there any skill, to make someone happy? (Not gay, damn it)

for some people, it's ice cream, for some, it's computer games.
but sometimes, these stuff can just do nothing.

it's like, well,
I understand, very well, that,  people should not be sad, or even despondent,
cuz, we have only one life,
why must we live in a melancholic aura?

I know, ghastly things go all the way around us.
But still, enjoy our every moment
cuz if we'r not going to enjoy it, we can never enjoy at that moment again.
time fleets, so fast.

However, how to be, happy, is another problem.
As mentioned above, shit happens.

If one is blue, and the one who love him/her feels blue too (as in friendship or love or whatever relationship), such a circulation goes without a destination saying "you can stop being blue here".
so if we are going to end a sorrow circle, someone has to stand up.

How much I wish to pull my unhappy friend into my arm and tell you that "everything will be alright".
That, these kind of stuff can't really express on phone or on MSN.
But it is not that "usual" to normal friends, or, whatever.
Even tho it can really help, in my very own opinion. (Bryan, dun touch me XDD)

Maybe a question may help?
"Hi, are you alright?"
Yeah, it really helps, at least for me, but people just don't do it.
Why? how do I know? I do that, so dun ask me.

And well, some ignoramuses like to act cool,
with an ugly face, while everyone knows that he/she is in grief, and kept telling everyone "nothing, I'm alrite"
first of all, that person is lying to the world, and personally, I hate people lying, and u don't show ur basic respect through lying, I'm sure
second, u think that's really cool? dun be stupid, u look like a folly
instead of "I'm alrite", why dun u say "I will be alright"?
instead of "nothing", why dun u say "I dun wanna say it right now"?
I would like to ask, "if there is anything I can help?". But again, people like to be so cooooooool. "No, I'm fine!" while I see that someone is falling into a shit cave.
"Yeah, fine, fine ass, lol."
well, just ignore those freaks
hey freaks, here's my advice,
frankly, just be frank

I really wanna know the answer of,
how to console someone while one is doleful? despair? demoralized?
sometimes, ice cream helps, but sometimes, it doesn't.
Well, as the hero of the movies told us, "we need time".
but, are there anyone realize that, time is so valuable or even invaluable?
how much I wish that, I can have more time with her, who cares if that's a day, an hour, or a second!
well, human beings are avaricious, tho, the aforementioned fact is just used to prove that time is so valuable and so invaluable.
Still, back to the question.
"If there's a price for rotten judgment, I thought I already won that." As Migrate said.

As a fiasco, myself, from so many of my experiences, I discovered that, try to be "i know what u feel, and I do feel the same" helps shit.
like, originally, one feels bad, and after u, the one who is supposed to comfort that person, now feel the same, where is the point comforting?
Yeah, maybe sometimes, it turns into a situation that "I am not so alone now, cuz u feel the same with me", kind of a mental conciliation, but seriously, then two start whining to each other how bad they feel but not turning the realistic situation any better. Instead of dragging someone into a bad situation, why can't you drag ur friend into a better situation?
Well, it doesn't help answering my question tho, cuz that's the problem I'm currently encountering.
The question is how...

Well, tired, time for a warcraft and then sleep.

Tmr, last sleep in Canada in June. lol

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